Sunday 16 October 2016

Lying, storytelling and confession

Hello everyone! Hope you guys are feeling well. By the way, did you guys enjoy the camp?  Today, my group will be talking about one of the theme, which is lying, storytelling and confession. Throughout the story in The Secret Life of Bees, you might have notice this theme being portrayed.

In the beginning of the novel, this theme can be seen when the main character, Lily Owens who lied to Brother Gerald, the priest about Rosaleen being deaf in one ear, thus she did not know that she stole the fans. Lily also lies about going to the toen to take some things for Rosaleen where she's actually running away from home. Next, the theme is also shown in the character August Boatwright who told Lily the story behind the May's wailing wall. August said that since April, May's twin dies, May become strange. She would be deeply depressed if anything tragic happens to anyone. Thus, she made the wailing wall to deal with their suffering by tucking scraps of paper into the wall. 


"But she's deaf in one ear," I said. "I think she
just mixed up what you said. She's always doing that. T.
Ray will tell her, "Iron my two shirts," and she'll iron the
blue shirts." (pg 68)

"Wailing wall," she said again. "Like they have in
Jerusalem. The Jewish people go there to mourn. It's a
way for them to deal with their suffering. See, they write
their prayers on scraps of paper and tuck them in the
wall." (pg 144)


August is, hands down, a legendary story teller. August tells the story of how Black Mary became the mother of thousands. From Lily's perspective, she thought and I quote, "I could tell she had repeated those opening lines a thousand times." To give the story a soul, August had to be as influential and emotional as the story is, so that she could spread the message woven into the story by its' original storytellers.
On the other hand, Lily told stories too, but false ones. This cunning technique called lying were used by Lily to give people what they believe to be true. However, Lily eventually realised that truth is more powerful than lies when she thought, and I quote, "I didn't know how long Black Mary could keep the curtains drawn."

In the last 4 chapters, the themes of storytelling and confession started when Lily was waiting for August in August’s room. Lily reminds August that August wanted to have a talk with her soon, and August nods: she remembers. Lily shows August the photograph of her mother.  August explains that she knew that Lily was Deborah’s daughter as soon as she laid eyes on her, but never revealed the truth to Lily, because Lily wasn’t ready to face the truth. August tries to tell Lily everything. Years ago, she says, she worked as a maid in Deborah’s house in Richmond. Deborah was a lively child, though a bad student. Before August says anything more about Deborah, she asks Lily to tell her the truth about her own parents. Lily confesses that she’s been lying: her father, T.Ray, isn’t dead, as she’d claimed. She also tells August that T. Ray told her that Deborah was going to leave the family forever: this is why she decided to leave Sylvan. As she says this, Lily bursts into tears. August embraces Lily and tells her to “let it out.”

“It’s my mother,” I said.
“I know, honey. Your mother was Deborah Fontanel Owens.”
… “I’m so glad that we’re finally going to talk about this out.”
… “You knew she was my mother all along,”
… “The first day you showed up, I took one look at you and all I could see was Deborah when she was your age. I knew Deborah had a daughter, but I thought no, you couldn’t be; it was too much to believe that Deborah’s daughter would turn up in my parlor. Then you said your name was Lily, and right that minute I knew who you were.”
… “But – but – you never said a word. How come you didn’t tell me?”
“Because you weren’t ready to know about her. I didn’t want to risk you running away again. I wanted you to have a chance to get yourself on solid ground, get you heart bolstered up first. There’s a fullness of time for things, Lily. You have to know when to prod an when to be quiet, when to let things take their course. That’s what I’ve been trying to do.”
… “I used to take care of her,” August said.
… “ She loved her dolls. She would hold little tea parties for them in the garden, and I would make these teeny-tiny sandwiches for their plates.”
… “What she didn’t like was schoolwork. I had to stay after her all the time about it. Chase her around calling out spelling words. One time she climbed a tree, hiding up there so she wouldn’t have to memorize a poem by Robert Frost. I found her and climbed up there with the book and wouldn’t let her come down till she could say the whole thing by heart.”
[chapter 12]

After she’s finished crying, Lily explains the rest of her story: she and Rosaleen snuck out of Sylvan after Rosaleen went to jail for trying to register to vote. As she admits this to August, she begins crying again. Lily thinks to herself that she’s a bad person: a liar and a thief, full of hate for other people. Reluctantly, Lily tells August the truth: she believes herself to be responsible for her mother’s death. As she says this, she says, “I am unlovable.”

… “Plus, Rosaleen and I got in trouble downtown, and I knew if I didn’t leave, T.Ray was gonna half kill me, and I was tired of being half killed.”
… “A policeman took us to jail,” I said.
… “The policeman said Rosaleen assaulted the men, but I was there, and she was only protecting herself. That’s all.”
[chapter 12]

The next day, Lily goes to meet August by the beehives. August shows Lily a beehive that’s missing a queen bee. As they look at the hive, August reminds Lily of the story of the runaway nun. The point of the story, August claims, was that in Deborah’s absence, the Lady of Chains could be a mother for Lily. She adds that Mary isn’t just a statue: she’s something inside Lily. Lily doesn’t understand what August means. Then, she closes her eyes, and for a few moments, feels exactly what August is talking about. 

… “Our Lady is not some magical being out there somewhere, like a fairy godmother. She’s not the statue in the parlor. She’s something inside of you. Do you understand what I’m telling you?”
… “You have to find mother inside yourself. We all do. Even if we already have a mother, we still have to find this part of ourselves inside.”
… “You don’t have to put your hand on Mary’s heart to get strength and consolation and rescue, and all the other things we need to get through life,”
… “You can place it right here on your own heart. Your own heart.”
[chapter 14]

In our opinion, lying should be allowed when you have to protect something or ensure its privacy. However, it is always better to speak out the hard truth rather than lying to people as lying may lead to mistrust between people in a relationship. 

By storytelling, someone would have a better understanding regarding an issue. For instance, when August told Lily about the wailing wall, she get to understand May's condition better. 

Guilt from hiding something can make us feel mixed up inside and cause us to lose our peace and enjoy. This is why confession is important. When Lily confessed to August the real intention of her coming to the parlor, she started to be more happy instead of worrying about her secrets.

References :

1. www.litchart.com

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